But I Was Only Borrowing Money - An Ethical Dilemma

Which causes populate to turn into to choices non conformist when they know that it is erroneous? To ask somebody who stole the money - you ever did think of yourself as a robber? Their answer is always resounding - not! However, their choices non conformist tend to lead them to the disastrous consequences. Like loudspeaker of motivation, anyhow much share of I my history, people continue to turn into to choices non conformist. What is saddened to really is me to observe people that I know write in moral dilemmas after all I tested and all what I divide. I certainly do not retain to share my history, believing that which indicates to my assistances of history others. There are those which learn by observation - that my assistances from history the majority. Then there are those which insist for lessons of study per experiment independently of what they hear. These people are those which of phase in denial which already rationalized their behaviors. My friend divided with me ! a history of a call of telephone which it received from her niece. She cried and inversion. She felt that frightened as the world broke inside around her. She felt as she needed assistance - she needed an exit. My friend listened and finally the history was shared. Apparent a few months ago there emerged in its medical questions of family. They judged that they had nowhere to turn. Her husband controlled an account in North Dakota. They decided "borrow" the money to help them to cover the medical questions. They believed that they had a manner of paying it behind without no matter whom knowing. During months they paid all except $2000 behind. The account could soon be audited. The niece and her husband were terrified results. Many nights ago and a good number without sleep of planning on the way in which to supplement the level of balance - and the way of dissimulating the fraud. The heart of my friend hurt. It knew my experiments what to be the possible results could. His/! her niece knew as well. They could be exposed, lose their repu! tation, are in charge of the diversion, and even will imprison. It seemed that the house of the charts broke downwards. My friend was frightened for them and the possible results. His/her niece had so much the integrity and kindness in it. She was timid and peace. She hated to draw attention to itself. What occurred? This woman had grown in an environment where the lack and the limitation were practised. One period ago which she and her mother were on the paving stone. His/her mother worked hard to take care of it. This woman as a child, ashamed felt from where it lived, which it carried. She was envieuse of what others had in some their lives. She did not have a father and the money was an enormous problem. Although it knew that his/her mother made her the best and that his/her mother liked dearly, it wanted different for itself and her children. They raised their children to have very whom they did not have. The two parents came from the broken houses. Her husband was given very t! hat it could want by his parents, but love. The woman was given any love which she wanted but not the things. They worked hard to have a house in the suburbs, work signicatifs, named clothing of mark for the children. The maintenance of the illusion of a happy life became completely expensive. There was no savings account of savings. They entered the debt more and more. When the medical situation emerged, they felt that there were no more options and they "borrowed" the money - rather stole the money under appearance "to borrow.  " All the times that somebody starts to make to a choice non conformist, in general there are three things which occur. Initially, there is a need. In this case, this young family did not have a medical need and any immediate money to cover the expenditure. In the second place, there is occasion. They had access to the money. Thirdly, there is rationalization. This family had to take care of a medical need, the money was there, and they would pay i! t behind. They were good people. But then, actually, the major! ity of t he "white criminals of collar" would be called good people as the people which they associated. All ingredients were aligned in so that they make to a choice non conformist and in their spirit they only "borrowed" - a typical cover rationalized for the flight. Now they are confronted with another moral dilemma. They want to make turn finances to someone else which identifies that they made an error. Can they do that without sea-green news onne passant en revue les disques de compte ? La conduite exigera-t-elle une comptabilité financière financière ? Se tiennent-ils sur les livres est-ce qu'ainsi personne ne découvriront ? Les tournent-ils excédent admettant leur situation et espoir pour la pitié ? Ce qui s'il n'y a aucune pitié ? Y aura-t-il du temps de prison ? Que diriez-vous de la réputation ? Il n'y a rien facile au sujet des conséquences de faire des choix non conformistes particulièrement si vous êtes une personne d'intégrité. Dans le cas de cette femme, elle a eu bea! ucoup d'intégrité. Elle a éloigné de son individu authentique. Elle n'a pas honoré qui elle est en tant que personne. Ceci juste ne s'est pas produit durant la nuit. Il s'est produit avec le temps. Une fois que nous éloignons de l'individu-intégrité, nous vivons avec l'illusion et nous ouvrons à attirer plus d'illusions à nos vies. En date de cette écriture, les résultats doivent être déterminés encore. Quel choix ils font aujourd'hui aura un effet leurs vies et les vies de leur famille pour toujours. Tous que je sais pour sûr, est celui si elles make an ethical choice today, they will reap the benefits in the future. If they make an unethical choice today, eventually it will collapse around them.My greatest lesson in life came from sitting in Federal Prison 13 years ago. I, too, created an illusory life and my house of cards crashed down around me. I made the exact choices my friend's niece except mine involved $250,000. Just the amount of the money is different. I had a ! need, I had the opportunity and I rationalized it. Eventually ! it caugh t up to me. It was the worst and the best time of my life. It was the worst because I lost everything: my job, my family, my reputation, my things. It was the best because I became integrous to myself for the first time in my life. I learned invaluable lessons which I share today as a Motivational Speaker whenever possible. We can all make mistakes. We are not our mistakes. We are more than what we seem...especially when we make choices that create a positive outcome.Chuck Gallagher is an international motivational speaker and author who shares his life experience in a way that is meaningful for his audiences. For information on Chuck's presentations on choices and consequences or how to subscribe to his free ezine...visit http://www.chuckgallagher.comArticle Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Chuck_Gallagher
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