Personal Ethics and Life

Enough curiously this continuous page to develop in the viewership and lines up as a one of the highest pages seen on this Web site. I am impressed concern growing for ethics currently. This article at the origin written for control 520 - ethics of organization, while was registered in the Master of arts in the program of organization of management at the university of Phoenix in Arizona. It is a division and a history personnel of these times and spaces personal in my life. To the risk to seem excessively individual-lenient I announced it here, doing ones publishes and including additional bonds below for more exploration. With worse, I hope that this piece provides a certain encouragement for your own efforts. Thank you and blessings on your own personal report/ratio for conviction and ethics of voyage…: I will to do it good for all, wishing to be used humanity in the highest and better use of my complex as spirit/body/spirit, in the facilitation of a new order of the worl! d of harmony among the people and planet by presenting the solutions of replacement at the delivery of service of community, taking part in the socio-economic and environmental programmes local of service, development of a model community of the last cry solution-based, and to develop a Web site which supports these efforts. It was said to him that values, morals and ethics are inextricably attached together. Is the values what we learn from childhood; the "substance" which we absorb of our immediate parents and environments. Morals are the intrinsic belief developed starting from the systems of value in the way in which us "should" behave in any situation given. The ethics, on the one hand, is how we really we comprise vis-a-vis the difficult situations which examine our moral fibre. In its book, "how the good people make hard choices," Rushworth Kidder notes four basic paradigms of the decisions morals: justice counters pity; in the short run against the term; individual ! counters the community; and truth counters fidelity. It contin! ues to d efine the concepts further: The • the point behind the paradigm of justice-against-pity is these equitability, stockholders' equity, and equitable application of the conflict of law often with the compassion, the empathy, and love. The • in the short run against the term, or maintaining against then, reflect the difficulties emerging so immediate must or of the desires to run contrary to future goals or prospects. The • the paradigm of the individual-against-community can be repeated like us counters them, the individual counters others, or smallest against the larger group. The truth of • against fidelity can be seen like honesty or integrity against engagement, the responsibility, or promise-to keep. To express the personal catch with one of ethics and the life cannot always be included/understood in the context of the world as a whole, the immediate environment, or even among suggesting others in the household. It is usually due to the fact that each person has a certain ! difference, small or large, in the development of their systems of belief. Systems of belief are established early in the life by environments of house, church, school, and gatherings social which help to mould and form the these belief. The majority of these belief and modes of behavior are established by the observations and the experiments without knowledge of childhood in the environments mentioned above. Those that I refer while external experiments of "" which are related with "consolidate" the piece of "nature-consolidate" développementaux processes. To allow me to employ a my clean "external" experiment like example. I knew that I was adopted before I was five years old. My adoptive parents were ideal by some standards, showing honesty, the integrity, and the will to address the conflict with the model and to honour even in most difficult with the situations. The dad was a tool and a machinist of matrix, the injection out of plastic of construction moulds for the op! tical division of General Motors and was also a thirty-second ! mason of degree. The mom was a teacher with a control in the music and English and taught English and the literature of college. They were a formidable team for a teenager with increasing pains, encouraging me to defy and explore my world. My parents taught me that honesty was the best policy, even when the details can not be too favorable. They taught me the significance of confidence what was not afraid even when I felt vulnerable. Naturally which does not mean that I can apply this C onnaissance toujours, bien que l'âge ait ses avantages. Là où les goulots d'étranglement évidents se produisent dans personnel et les environnements professionnels je toujours tendre « entrent profondément » dans les conversations même au risque de rejet. Les chemins doivent être se sont dégagés du détritus pour que les rapports pleins se développent. J'ai également commencé à avoir métaphysique, ou paranormal, des expériences autour de mon 6ème anniversaire. Je me réfère à ces derniers comme expérie! nces intérieures de `', ou ce qui je me sens apparenté à l'élément de « nature » des processus développementaux. Notre fonctionnalité intrinsèque dans la société provient de cet endroit, bien que ce soit les détails « externes » qui règnent généralement la scène. Pour les la plupart, l'expérience interne est souvent ignorée en raison du manque d'acceptation ou de validation externe. Il y avait une disparité avec mes parents dus au manque d'une armature de la référence concernant mes meanderings métaphysiques qui m'ont souvent fait remettre en cause ma propre réalité, d'ailleurs. La « confiance mais vérifient » la confiance de constructions on others and it is rare that one can find other psychic constituents in the workplace or in life for that matter.Consequently, the balance toward trusting others was often weighted by desire rather than discernment. The discernment came later as I began to understand that not all people were like my parents. Even they kept their distance! in discussing certain spiritual experiences or subjects. The ! lack of personal experience often creates barriers that are difficult to bridge, if at all. In fact, I found that disbelief and skepticism were more prominent than ever. People were often afraid of what they did not understand and sometimes allowed that fear to provoke unnecessary violence. Fear stimulates a plethora of disconnecting responses. I had learned that life was stimulated by connectedness so this presented a great enigma. How can one close this gap, at times a chasm, so that it can be reconciled or resolved?Others' motives were not always utilitarian. Heck, mine weren't always either. We all have some selfish motivations from time to time. Some live their lives by those motivations. The resulting actions were often misplaced personal libertarian expressions of selfishness without regard to personal boundaries and affects on the environment, fueled by the presence of plethora of distractions from what is 'healthy or prudent' to what works for now or provides the most perso! nal benefit. Honesty and integrity show up in the leaders who are willing to bear the cross, so to speak, of clearing the path to success of its garbage.This process of restoring integrity (the congruence of values, ethics, and morals) can have emotionally devastating affects if one allows the projections of others to rule their lives. People with problems most often will project those problems onto others until someone or something presents a situation that challenges the person to change and provides a safe environment for them to do so. There are others who seem to attract these situations, usually because they have committed themselves to service in some way. The strength of character is reflective of the trials and tribulations one has addressed in their life and empowered by their ability to ascend from emotional manipulation and/or trickery. The proverbial look in the mirror allows us to see what we need to transcend, even in ourselves.As I got older I learned that t! he inner life I was leading provided more concrete understandi! ng of th e nature of the outer reality and the actions of others. I read profusely for a time, gobbling up the great works of secular and spiritual masters to glean better understanding of my own experiences and to grow personally and professionally. Putting myself in the hot seat at seminars and workshops tested what I learned and tempered my sword of truth over time. I learned over the years that questions asked internally with sincerity are answered in a variety of ways, not always in the moment they are asked. We all still have to deal with human emotions and the occasional absurdity of the actions emotions precipitate. Whether exposing options changed those actions or not varied from situation to situation depending on my ability to question congruency, the awareness of connectivity, and framing the emotional feelings and sensations verbally so that we could discuss them. Articulation without projection is a most challenging process. Most 'first responses' in chelas on the path ! are projective in nature, often defensive and full of irrationalities. The challenge to change still presents itself as I get older and more experienced with introducing interrogatives that do not put people on edge, although sometimes its fun to watch them squirm. However, insecurity is rampant in our society and even the most innocuous questions too often produce defensive postures. Fear, guilt and shame have ruled our lives for too long.In my teens the greatest influence came through the Order of DeMolay, which is sort of a young men's (14-21) Christian-based precursor to the Masonic Order. It was named after Jaques DeMolay, a Knights Templar, who gave up his life rather than betray his brethren during the Crusades in Europe. I was elected Master Councilor at fifteen and at 17, competed at the state Conclave through a speech on filial love and in one-meter springboard diving, achieving an honorable mention for the speech and third place in diving. Receiving the Internati! onal DeMolay Medal for Saving a Human Life was another signifi! cant emo tional event at the Conclave. I had been quick to respond to an event at the public pool where I was a lifeguard the previous summer. I reached an unconscious young girl just after being struck by another diver, having perceived the outcome and entering the water before the actual event. Her parents pursued the newspaper and recognition of my attentiveness. I was just fortunate to have been watching and able to act on the event. Our Chapter Dad submitted the paperwork to the International Council without my awareness. Saving the life of another is a personal blessing for which there is truly no verbal or written example of the heart-felt response. I chose not to pursue the path of Free Masonry, although I honor its foundation of personal service toward the highest good of all.I learned the value of teamwork in school through clubs, group projects and sports and individual participation in support of the team through baseball, golf (medallist my senior year), and track. The c! ompetitive spirit was alive within me, yet it was not a 'win-at-all-cost' attitude by any means. I had a lot of natural academic talent and physical ability that I took for granted. I realized later in life that my knack for accomplishment stemmed from simply not knowing what I could not do. I missed opportunities because I chose to clutter my head with drugs late in high school and early in college. In time I learned to be genuine with my affection and my attention; being cautious and sensitive in matters of the heart and a bit bold in exploring life's opportunities. According to many authorities relationships should be more caring and considerate as we mature. Much later, my involvement in education and child development (divorced w/four children and an unfulfilled desire to be near them) demonstrated that the 'norm' during those years is quite 'me-centered' and emotional maturity comes later for most, if at all. I'm sure my behavior was quite indicative of a teenager, ye! t in the quieter moments my thoughts ran very deep.I graduated! 10th in my class of 300 and had no idea at the time that I could have been valedictorian had I put just a little effort toward excelling in academics. My classroom pranks brought my average down as well, having met the challenge of classmates without thinking of personal outcome. Teachers' kids/preachers' kids... not much difference. I got caught up in 'wanting to be liked' and did some inappropriate things. Academic and athletic abilities came naturally, yet my appreciation for them was diminished by my exploration into pot and hallucinogens. The drugs served two things - emotional escape and surprisingly a way to find a deeper connection with life - a paradox that seems to be prevalent in progressive lifestyles. Still some do not understand this path is only short-lived, a mere stepping stone on the way to enlightenment and not a destination by any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately many get caught in the quagmire and never return to reality. Many more have moved on to gre! ater accomplishments. I still find that I let secondary priorities affect my efforts to follow my true passions in life, which I sense is the norm for most of us. Daily living offers the chance of many opportunities which call for the ethical and moral considerations for self and others before acting on those choices.My second quarter in college started off with a real bang. I'd been dating a girl since my sophomore year in high school; 'breaking up' with her upon entering college because I was not sure I would be able to maintain monogamy. The first quarter brought some heavy emotional days of missing her so during quarter break I went back to ask her to marry me. I lost it after I found out she was already married, nearly a month prior. I was an emotional basket case for a long time afterward. My heart sunk in devastation and I returned to school determined to give my life to something with meaning. In respect of this I knelt in prayer and asked 'Father' to know truth and! was willing to die for it if necessary. It was the most inten! se praye r I'd ever made. A week later, while in meditation listening to 'In the Morning Day' on Journey's first album, I heard a voice immediately after the lyrics of the song. It said, "Bruce, are you willing to die for what you believe in?" I paused for a moment, checking my beliefs (Christ in an 'expanded' view), and replied, "Yes." Immediately I felt a tugging on my inner being. I let go and turned to see my body as I was moving away from it. O.B.Es were not unfamiliar, as I'd been having them since childhood. When I turned back to look where I was going, I was engulfed by white light.I was only missing tactile sensations inside the light and as an impetuous teen, I asked if there was more. I felt another sensation of movement and found myself in the center of a sphere of pinpoints of light. After recognizing them as points of consciousness, whether in body or not I was not sure as I sure as heck was not, the voice resumed. "These are those that you are to work with in order to ! facilitate the new world order. ... trust and allow." At the completion, I returned to my body with a rush of energy followed by a gasp for air, leaving my eyes closed temporarily while getting reacquainted with my body. Returning to my body was in itself a significant emotional event, let alone the previous few moments. I felt my question was answered and I wanted to shout it from the rooftops, consequently told my parents, and found myself talking with a psychiatrist a week later. To this day I still seek answers to the questions remaining from this experience. A blessing in disguise, my tenure with the psychologist helped me to begin to balance my inner and outer experiences, and to find order in my life. I saw him twice before he reflected his findings to me.After a brief conversation on my third visit, where he revealed that he believed I was not crazy by any stretch of the imagination. He said that I was going through a 'spiritual awakening' of classic nature, only th! at it usually happened when folks were in their 40's. He asked! me to f ollow him and we adjourned to the second story of his office in a beautiful historic home in Anderson, Indiana. This resulted in my first tarot card reading, which edified all we had discussed and more. I was ecstatic and intimidated by the 'truth' this session revealed. His advice was to keep my mouth shut because few would understand, especially my adoptive parents who just could not relate to a spiritual awakening instead of a psychologically skewed son for whom they cared dearly and were frightened for his life. At the time I did not know that schizophrenia ran in my mother's family and fueled their fears. In time the psychiatrist said I would find 'flow' (congruency) with my experience and the world.So, I learned that there was much more beyond my understanding of 'truth' and it seemed to be leaning toward being everywhere I looked. It took a couple of decades or so to get the picture focused a little bit better, through a starting a family, a cross-country move landing! in Phoenix, Arizona, and a professional career that took me into many different industries. Metaphysical experiences were even more profound during this period and I feel they even helped to drive a wedge between my wife and I, eventually resulting in our divorce after 12 years of being together and birthing four beautiful children. Releasing emotional attachment to that whole scenario was the most difficult experience I've had, yet the essence of it has guided my life continually. I know that all things are connected, we just need to understand how and that emotional attachments are vastly different from 'connections.'I had and still have many questions regarding this supposed 'mission' I have been given.How was this 'facilitation of a new world order' all going to come to fruition? What are the ethical and moral considerations for engaging others? My professional background has become fairly extensive yet pales in comparison to those I hold as icons and leaders in variou! s professional fields. As professional opportunities presented! themsel ves, I began to conceptualize an environment that would demonstrate leading edge technologies in all fields and how they would work together in harmony with people and planet. It had to include every best practice and element of a global community on a micro-community scale. Eventually the plan began to develop with enough detail that I could at least write an overview of the project, eventually becoming Genesis II.Some years later I met with Carl Bimson, a 91 year-old founder of a bank in Arizona, to share our Genesis II plan. He still had an office in the Valley National Bank building in downtown Phoenix and was available to talk with people by appointment. Mr. Bimson thought it was well thought out and suggested I go find the pieces. Quite unexpectedly, he then went on to explain how his wife's psychic gifts and card readings had helped tremendously in his business and banking career. What a shock that conversation was... He and two brothers facilitated about 70% of the b! usiness development in the progress of Arizona's growth.After some time of considering Carl's advice, I began my Master of Business Administration in project management in 1994 to continue the process of finding the pieces and knowing what to do with them when I did. Now, after achieving certification as a Hypnotherapist and in my second master's program, I seek to continue the plan and assemble an organizational plan, including all necessary policy development, organizational duties and responsibilities, and management philosophy that will empower the assemblage of a team of dedicated professionals to take Genesis to the next level of development. Meanwhile, we continue to develop Be The Dream (www.bethedream.org, .com, and .net), our bridge of nonprofit and for profit endeavors, as an exemplary leader on the Internet through demonstrating the concepts of the community in a microeconomic environment. In a sense we are connecting the dots of commerce, education and communit! y through our Cultural Creative ways. Ideas and visions need t! o have c reative outlets, which meant that I had to learn a new skill - web development. What is interesting is that I truly have no idea how these concepts will accepted, let along embraced, by the corporate and/or philanthropic community. I am just a guy with ideas and a vision.Over the years we have done much development work and are beginning to seek out potential backers and investors for the project. My personal ethics statement applies to the intrinsic dynamic of these projects, empowering results in our quest for success. Even though I've done extensive reading on a variety of subjects dealing with the socialization processes, actualizing these endeavors is proving to be quite the challenge, necessitating reflection on my personal code of ethics regularly. Am I really cut out for this? How do I/we engage others and fulfill their needs in the participative process? It is in this process that I am able to facilitate collaborative efforts in larger groups with others who have si! milar or congruent ethics and are doing something in their community about sharing them? This will continue to be a great challenge and hopefully secondary priorities will become less distracting and invasive. Faith in 'doing the right thing' is imperative throughout the process. I have learned that my own concept of 'time' and fruition is often incongruent with the 'divine' timing and I am reminded of the need for humility, releasing my personal criticisms of where I 'should' be now and allowing the faith and trust in the process to resolve all concerns. It becomes more apparent as we grow older that cleaning up, clearing up, and moving on with refined moral and ethical behavior is the key to success.... everywhere.Now, having joined with a compatible life partner, we have launched into this program together in order to 'force' ourselves to take the next steps in making our dreams reality. I moved on from education to Life Coaching as my 'next-step' in acquiring the skills! necessary to help bridge inner and outer worlds in others. My! partner is currently teaching gifted children in district school. We both tend to need to be in positions where we are compelled to do what is necessary because it is a requirement of the process. Some people work best that way. It seems that most successful people also follow this pattern of creating situations where they have to perform, meet deadlines and rise above the pack to achieve their dreams. Everything turns out to be a process as time goes on. Utilizing the Internet to help 'spread the word' will undoubtedly meet with mixed results. As much as I have learned and know there is much more that I do not. I feel awed and inspired by this discovery process, engaged by the thrill of the next event. I have to rely on serendipity to move this project forward, where patience is a primary factor. I'm encouraged by the personal involvement and visionary efforts of a growing number of concern planetary citizenry, addressing the basic ethical and moral decisions within the scope of s! ervice to self and service to others. My hopes are that through this Master of Arts in Organizational Management program I will find more ways to make things real, practical and pragmatic, and continue to grow personally and professionally.About the Author: Rev. Zen Benefiel is a multi-degreed author, coach, consultant and facilitator with a passion for education and facilitating partnerships. Zen experienced a spiritual awakening in 1975, an honors student in college, complete with a very profound near death experience. He founded Be The Dream, a sole-proprietorship consulting company, in 1988 as vehicle to promote holistic understanding in business and personal achievement. Be The Dream has transformed along with its founder to become a leader in establishing a new living awareness among seekers of harmony, truth and planetary stewardship. An international presenter on holistic project planning, he has co-created a vision for a holistic model community serving at-risk you! th, called Spectrum Academy (http://www.spectrumacademy.org). ! Zen resi des in Gilbert, Arizona.Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Zen_Benefiel
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